That is what I always question myself, love familyship friendship are basicaaly the fundemental three pillers in our entire lifetime. I gain the meaning of friendship back into my secondary school. However, we consitently making new friend s and farewell with old ones. We have to know people always change as time goes by. The time we meet each other we share time with them and then we study and work in different counries, cities and we have our partners, our orbits track start to separate. If we could not share the same value in spirit, we will be stangers and at the time we realise it we already have not talk and see each other for days, weeks months or years.
Distance is a problem, it lies as a problem itself and create the secondary problems following the original one. Adding up the complications, even though you guys communicate with each other, you still could not ease themind to really be close.
friendship is a warmhearted feelings that strangers become physically and mentally close to each other and caring supporting the ones.
friendship is a concept that everyone may interpret it in different meanings, for people who value benifits may think the oen who can contributes to the project more is the largest stateholder and the potential friends.
in this case, friends have varies meanings so that friendships can have different expression.
I more tend to call the small amount of persons to be genuinig true friends, we may have less compatitive feelings to each other and want them to be good engough, we dont mind if they surpass us or not.
Well, inall, friendship is what we want to own but we do not know if we really have it until something happen to you to have a real life test.
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